Nice guys always finish last…

Dear Young king, One of the marks of mature leadership and true masculinity is the ability to say “no”—especially when it’s difficult. For many men, particularly in relationships, this can be a daunting task. Saying no to impulsive or emotionally charged demands from a woman may feel risky, even frightening. There’s a lingering fear that…

Wedding season liquidity

In the biblical story of the wedding night at Canaan, the attendants were surprised when wine got done as they married around because preparations in the Jewish culture took place for a year before the wedding date.Comunications were down a year prior to give room for enough preparation In the African part of the world,…

What makes you a young king?

What makes you a young king?

Dear Young King, You aren’t a king if you’re still staying in your father’s house. Argue all you like but reality will soon kick in for the single reason that there can’t be two kings in one kingdom! Stdy all ancient cultures, traditions and systems, Every kingdom only stands on instruction from one king. There…

You had an argument with her – what’s the way forward?

You had an argument with her – what’s the way forward?

Dear Young King, There’s nothing humanly wrong with backing down from an argument you have with your girlfriend, but there is everything wrong when you continually compromise yourself to ‘keep the peace’ with the understanding that she’ll withhold intimacy (the love care emotional and physiological support) as a result of you holding your ground. This…