If our children see us going the extra mile just to acquire liabilities\u2014slaying in designer outfits, chasing expensive cars, and proudly wearing other people\u2019s labels\u2014they\u2019ll grow up believing that success is about appearance, not impact. They\u2019ll think that happiness comes from Gucci, not growth. From Versace, not vision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Let\u2019s be honest: Gucci, Versace, Givenchy\u2014these aren\u2019t just fashion brands. They\u2019re family names. Names that were turned into global empires. These individuals didn\u2019t just wear fashion\u2014they built it. They monetized their passion, stitched their legacy into every garment, and now touch every corner of the world with their creations.Meanwhile, many of us wear their names proudly, but forget to build our own. We glorify their labels, but neglect our own potential. And our children are watching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What Are We Really Teaching?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If our children only see us joyful when we buy luxury brands or when we\u2019re intoxicated, what message are we sending? That fulfillment comes from consumption? That identity is tied to what we wear or drink? I\u2019m not even sure \u201cdesigner alcohol\u201d is a real thing\u2014but I do know this: alcohol doesn\u2019t change the world. Vision does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gianni Versace once said, \u201cDon\u2019t be into trends. Don\u2019t let fashion own you, but you decide what you are.\u201d And another quote I love: \u201cIn the past, people were born royal. Nowadays, royalty comes from what you do.\u201d That\u2019s the kind of mindset we need to pass on\u2014not just to our children, but to our communities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Car Culture Trap<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Here in Africa, it\u2019s not uncommon to see young people still living with their parents, yet driving luxury cars. As soon as they land a job, their first priority is often a car\u2014not an investment, not a savings plan, not a business idea. Just a car.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This relentless pursuit of looking rich has kept many from becoming rich. If you don\u2019t own cash-generating assets, if you don\u2019t have an investment portfolio or a business that builds real wealth, then living lavishly on the outside will only make you feel emptier on the inside. It lowers self-esteem and increases the need to mask inner poverty with outer luxury.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Not everyone driving a car is successful. Some of the greatest minds in history didn\u2019t own flashy vehicles\u2014they owned dreams. And as the saying goes, \u201cModern slaves aren\u2019t in chains\u2014they\u2019re in debt.\u201d Many of the cars we admire are financed through loans that will take years to repay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Bicycle Paradox<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s take a moment to look beyond our borders. In countries with booming economies\u2014like the Netherlands, Norway, Sweden, Germany, and Denmark\u2014bicycles are a respected mode of transport. People use them to commute, drop off their kids, and run errands. In Copenhagen, the world\u2019s most bicycle-friendly city, cycling is a symbol of health, sustainability, and practicality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But here in Africa, a bicycle is often seen as a symbol of poverty. We associate wealth with car ownership, even when the car is financed with debt and offers no return on investment. Ironically, the richest nations embrace simplicity, while the poorest chase symbols of wealth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Home Ownership Myth<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s talk about houses. Owning a home can elevate your social status, offer comfort, and provide stability. But let\u2019s be clear: a house is not a wealth creation strategy unless it\u2019s a commercial property generating income.Too many business owners take capital that could be used to grow their ventures and pour it into building homes\u2014homes that don\u2019t pay them back. They confuse comfort with wealth, and status with strategy.The Real MessageI\u2019m not against owning nice things. I\u2019m not against cars, homes, or fashion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n My point is simple: mindset matters. It\u2019s better to delay buying liabilities and invest in assets first. It\u2019s better to build something that lasts than to buy something that fades.We need to do better. History is staring at us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The next African generation is looking up to us\u2014not for what we wear, but for what we build. Let\u2019s teach them that success is about impact, not image. Let\u2019s show them that royalty isn\u2019t inherited\u2014it\u2019s earned.Let\u2019s stop glorifying consumption and start celebrating creation. Because the real designer label isn\u2019t Gucci\u2014it\u2019s your legacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" If our children see us going the extra mile just to acquire liabilities\u2014slaying in designer outfits, chasing expensive cars, and proudly wearing other people\u2019s labels\u2014they\u2019ll grow up believing that success is about appearance, not impact. They\u2019ll think that happiness comes from Gucci, not growth. From Versace, not vision. 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